How is BBW Dating for Thin Guys? – All the Answers here

Although progress in society has opened the door for people of specific sexualities, ethnicities and cultural backgrounds to date freely and mix it up, there is still a certain amount of taboo surrounding body image.

Many skinny guys know what it’s like to burn a candle for a larger woman but might not have the courage to let her know how they feel for fear of being rejected. Body dysmorphia and a poor body image can have a devastatingly limiting effect on your love life, your confidence, and your success in dating.

Online dating is helping to change all that. You’ll find plenty of websites dedicated to thin guys and big, beautiful women (BBW). Sites that occupy this niche allow skinny men to interact with and date women, who are also of a certain size, freely and without judgement.

If curves are your kryptonite, then the good news is that there are plenty of BBW to date out there, many of whom are looking for a partner of your physical type. BBW dating is just as fulfilling as dating a woman of a lesser size. So how do you find your perfect plus-size partner, if you’re a little on the thin side? We’ve looked at how BBW dating can be a pleasure, not a chore, for skinny guys.

Confident curvy woman dressed in green, smiling

Things to Remember when Dating a BBW

The first step is to find a BBW online dating site. Sign up and you’ll be able to read profiles from and see photos of candidates who might tick all your boxes.

While you’ll also have to write something about yourself and upload a picture or two, be aware that the BBW users are on the lookout for someone who interests them, without being judgmental about body type.

Online dating can be much less stressful than face-to-face dating. You can message women who catch your eye at the time that’s best for you and establish a connection before you meet them in the ‘real world’.

While some skinny guys might worry that their lack of poundage might be a turn-off for larger women, it’s worth remembering that the saying ‘opposites attract’ is very accurate.

There are plenty of curvaceous women who are looking for a straight-up, straight-down boyfriend who isn’t afraid to have a voluptuous Venus on his arm.

How to Date a BBW?

Regardless of whether you’re turned on by someone’s size, it’s important to remember to look beyond the curves that catch your attention. Here are a few things to remember when dating a BBW.

  • They’re more than just a fetish. BBW aren’t a quick-fix solution to your fantasies. Many of the women who use BBW dating sites are there to find fulfilling and meaningful relationships. If you’re after something quick and convenient, you should flirt with BBW on hook-up sites.

  • Be prepared to commit in public as well as in private. For many BBW, the fear is that they’ll be kept as a naughty secret. If you’re serious about dating with a BBW, then you may have to suffer judgement from those around you. The most attractive thing you can offer in this situation is complete and genuine indifference to what anybody else thinks or says.

  • Let her know how beautiful you find her. Snide remarks and passive-aggressive comments are part and parcel of being bigger than the prescribed norm and can easily damage a BBW’s confidence. Be sure to let your date know just how attractive she is and why. However, as the saying goes, beauty is only skin deep, so don’t just consider how she looks. Who she is as a person is just as, if not more, important. Looks fade. Love and a kind heart don’t!

3 beautiful curvy women from different ethnicities backgrounds laughing on the beach

Why date a BBW?

The chances are that, if you’re a skinny guy, you’re not going to be that body-confident. When you date a BBW, you’ll be dating someone who is likely to have similar issues, but for different reasons.

Dating a BBW when you’re a thin man can be liberating. Not only do you get to hang out with a woman that looks good, but the chances are also that she’ll speak the same language as you and have similar life experiences. Also many adult men prefer BBW because of femininity.

Fundamentally, your size and the size of your date have nothing to do with the emotional connection you make. If you’re both happy in each other’s company, it doesn’t matter how big or small you might be.

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